November 21, 2008

Wedding Favor Ideas: Tips For Planning Weddings

Filed under: Universe Of Relationships @ 5:14 am

If you have ever attended a wedding, you probably remember the keepsakes that the bride and groom gave their guests. Giving each guest a wedding favor is part of the tradition of the wedding ceremony. Any bridal shop will have various wedding favors from which you can choose. For a more unique touch you can design and create your own style of wedding favor to give guests. Not only does this add a special touch to the ceremony, but it also provides an opportunity for the individuals in the wedding party to spend time together before the ceremony in an occasion that is not as hectic. A customized wedding favor can also save you money since you can usually buy the materials you need at any hobby shop.

More than a Keepsake
A wedding favor can serve many purposes. A keepsake is the main reason that people give a wedding favor at weddings. A wedding favor can also serve the purpose of sending off the bride and grooms. A very popular wedding favor that you can make without spending much time and money are bubbles. When the wedding couple is leaving for their honeymoon venture, the guests generally send off the couple with a cloud of bubbles. When you make the decision to give each guest a wedding favor that is memorable, it is a good idea to come up with a wedding favor idea that is associated with the bride and groom.

Adding Your Unique Touch
In addition to being a keepsake, a wedding favor should be unique. To make a wedding favor unique, you can add a twist to a traditional idea or create something completely your own. Divinity or candy is a common gift that you can dress up with decorative containers or wrappings. It is completely acceptable to make the candy or divinity yourself or have someone with cooking skills take care of this for you. A candle makes an excellent wedding favor because there are so many fragrances, colors, and accessories that you can use to make them a unique wedding favor. If you go with candles as a wedding favor, you might to consider taking a candle making class. Check your local area to see if any of the hobby shops have candle-making classes. This is a fun activity that the entire wedding party can participate in.

Cost
You don’t have to spend a lot of money to create a unique wedding favor to give their wedding guests. It is an unspoken truth that a wedding favor is inexpensive. Even if you are creating the most formal wedding ceremony, your wedding favor should be simple and cheap.

For a free course on planning discount weddings and where to find the best discount wedding invitations, visit www.discountweddingguide.com/ today.

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November 20, 2008

Jaimee Wants to Get Married But the Law Will Not Let Her

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Do you know why? You see Jaimee is a lesbian and has been very happy with her mate, but she is not allowed to get married by law. Each time she takes issue with this on Internet Forums all the Christians start quoting scripture and all sorts of hokum and slander? Well one young man came to her rescue in an attempt to easy the burden.

“Jaimee, I am not of a religious connotation. So, I am looking at this issue from outside the cave. I see your point. There is nothing I can do to help you and look how intense these debates get. I suppose if the Gay and Lesbian Community would have started this level of push 30 years ago then today it would be happening in the USA like it is in most other nations. There are also lobbyists who are Corporate who are opposed because it means approximately 5% increased in healthcare co-pays and other entitlements. Right now we have many Corporations trying to get out from under under-funded pensions and negotiating with Unions in many industries, Auto, Manufacturing, Airlines, etc. to cut benefits. So that too is an issue catching you between a rock and a hard place.”

It appears that there are some benefits issues here in corporate America on top of the Christian Right voting block and they may not be able to afford an onslaught of additional gay and lesbian marriages. Or so they say. But either way apparently there is a lot of money flow and huge voting blocks against gay marriage, so it looks like it maybe a while yet still for Jaimee and her friend. Consider all this in 2006.

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November 19, 2008

A Fantastic Stag Weekend in Vilnius - the Greatest in Pre Wedding Fun, Part Two

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This is Where I Ate a Thigh of Roe Deer and washed it Down with Acorn Coffee!

If you’ve ever wanted to savour the culinary delights of beaver, cow’s tongue or smoked hog’s ear- and who hasn’t? - the east is where to feast. In Vilnius they’ve got a specialty beer divined from both malt and peas and a cup of coffee is traditionally made from ground acorns. There’s a lot to love about traditional Lithuanian fare and not least because it has ‘hangover cure’ written all over it. Imagine waking up after a serious night on the tiles, so hungry you’re willing to gnaw your big toe off, your stomach has that old time vat of acid feeling and you’re dreaming of a greasy fry-up. This is where Cepelinai steps up to the plate. Described by a respected food writer as “a Zeppelin-shaped parcel of potato dough” filled with meat, covered in a sauce of onions, cream, butter and bacon bits, (and bacon bits, magic words in anyone’s language) Cepelinai hits the spot to reline the stomach and imbue the consumer with a warm inner glow of nothing short but pure satisfaction. Almost spiritual. So rich, so creamy, so oniony, so meaty, so bacony and so simple in its delight that it makes you want to take the Tesco ‘Five a day’ and moon the daylights out of Gordon Ramsay and that bloody Gillian you-are-what-you-eat-woman. Taste it. Love it. Become a new man.

And This is Where I Drank this Random Honey Stuff

So what are you waiting for? Get involved. Knowing that you’ve got a sure fire hangover cure gives you no legitimate excuse for turning down the God bestowed nectar that is Lithuania’s Special Honey Mead Balsam. Amateurs need not apply. There are two main types; Suktinis at 50% proof and Zalgaris which is a scorcher at a staggering 75%. Seventy-five. You could, however just as easily stick to the vast array of boutique beers from the surrounding breweries, the best of which are the pale bronze lagers made from both malt and peas, a fine drop by the name of ‘Sirvenos’ is a good place to start. You’ll also find many rich reddish brown lagers with hints of whiskey and sherry undertones.

Vilnius is Baltic So Will I Freeze My B@$$s Off?

Maybe. But not necessarily. Just like the UK January is the most freezing month with lows hitting a chillin’ -9C. The record low for Vilnius is -30C but that was so long ago that no one really remembers and the record high is a toasty 35C. But generally from April to October Vilnius is cool without being cold and warm without being sweltering.

Average January Temperature: -2 C

Average July Temerature: 19C

Weird But Cool Lithuanian Facts:

In a move that can only be described as unconventional, the Lituanian Basketball team, which rocketed to fame in the early 90s after scooping the bronze medal at the Barcelona Olympics, is supported by none other than the American Pyschedelic rock band ‘The Grateful Dead’. Official team photos show the athletes sporting highly fetching tie died shorts in a varying assortments of lime, magenta and acid pink. Dude.

Lithuania is the proud home of the world’s largest TV sculpture. Artist Gintaras Karosas created the work entitled “LNK Infotree” using just under three thousand individual television sets.
Lithuanian man/beast Antanas Kontrimas, who reportedly hadn’t shaved in a quarter of a century, set the Guinness World record for the greatest weight lifted by a human beard. On the 11 September 2004, Kontrimas lifted a 136 pound woman with only his whiskers. On previous occasions Kontrimas carried a sack of grain, a TV host and an entire keg of homemade beer. Ladies, get in line.

So How Do I Organise All the Travelly Details Without Screwing Up?

Easy. There’s a London-based company by the name of Chillisauce who employ people who really enjoy tailoring packages stag groups to Vilnius, and a whole bunch of other cities. They do all the phoning, reserving and then come up with ideas just for you and your friends. All you actually have to do is turn up to have the most kicking ass time.

Can’t wait to get a taste of that? Just drop a line to Amalia Illgner, she is a copywriter for chillisauce.co.uk; a fully bonded tour operator specialising in memorable stag nights. And there’s a whole map of possibilities for a great stag weekend, for some excellent adventure filled ideas check out chillisauce where they will tailor a Stag Weekend in Vilnius just for you.

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November 18, 2008

Wedding Transportation

Filed under: Universe Of Relationships @ 8:16 am

Are you looking for some inside information on wedding transportation? Here’s an up-to-date report from wedding transportation experts who should know.

Although the bride and groom traditionally arrive at the ceremony in separate vehicles, they travel to the reception together. There are many options that the bride and groom may consider when choosing their transportation to the reception. These options encompass a wide variety of sentiments. They can vary from traditional, to magical and even outrageous. Just a few of the transportation options available for a bride and groom are a limousine, a horse drawn carriage, a motorcycle, a bus or even a sports car.

A limousine is one of the more traditional ways for a bride and groom to arrive at their reception. There is a wide variety of limousines available today including stretch versions of popular sport utility vehicles. The bride and groom may opt for a simple limousine for just the two of them or they may choose to arrive in a stretch sports utility vehicle that can transport the entire wedding party and contains outrageous features such as a hot tub and a dance floor as well as a bar. Although limousine companies are beginning to offer more outrageous models, the limousine is still considered to be the most traditional way for a bride and groom and their wedding party to arrive at the reception.

A horse drawn carriage is becoming another popular way for a bride and groom to arrive at their wedding reception. This mode of transportation creates a fairy tale image that has a feel of magic. This is a way for the bride and the groom to have an opportunity to spend some time alone in between the ceremony and the reception. They typically travel in the carriage without the accompaniment of any of the members of the wedding party so it is a quiet time for the couple to relax together before the excitement of the reception. The other advantage to arriving at the reception in a horse drawn carriage is that the fairy tale connotations make the night seem truly magical.

If you base what you do on inaccurate information, you might be unpleasantly surprised by the consequences. Make sure you get the whole wedding transportation story from informed sources.

An adventurous couple may choose to ride a motorcycle to their reception. This unique mode of transportation for a wedding is sure to gain quite a bit of attention. Even people who just happen to be passing by are bound to notice an elegantly dressed bride riding on the back of a motorcycle. One advantage to riding a motorcycle to your wedding reception is that, depending on the policies of the hall, the couple may be able to drive the motorcycle directly into the reception hall as they are introduced to the guests.

A bus is another popular way for the entire wedding party to arrive at the reception. A couple that is interested in getting the party started immediately after the ceremony may opt to rent a bus to transport the entire wedding party from the ceremony to the reception. This is a great way for the couple to have some time to mingle with their closest friends before the reception. Once the couple arrives at the reception they will have the responsibility of mingling with all of the guests and thanking them for their attendance and may not have time to spend with the wedding party so it is important to have this time just before the reception to spend time with them and thank them for all of their efforts. The other advantage to this option is that it supplies all of the members of the wedding party reliable transportation to the reception and ensures that no one is left behind.

An extravagant sports car is another popular way for the bride and groom to arrive at the reception. Whether it is rented, borrowed or owned by the couple an expensive sports car is always an admired mode of transportation. Most sports cars only seat two passengers so this is an excellent way for the bride and groom to travel to their reception because it gives them the opportunity to spend some quality time together before the chaos of the reception. They can take a few moments to enjoy each others company and reflect on the preceding ceremony. This short amount of time will be greatly cherished by the bride and the groom.

The bride and groom have a wide assortment of options for arriving at their wedding reception. Each option has its own distinct advantages and disadvantages and it is difficult to compare the options. Choosing a mode of transportation is a personal choice that the couple has to make based on their own preferences.

Knowing enough about wedding transportation to make solid, informed choices cuts down on the fear factor. If you apply what you’ve just learned about wedding transportation, you should have nothing to worry about.

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Turbo Charge Your Love Life: The Value of Change

Filed under: Universe Of Relationships @ 4:40 am

We human beings seem to be pre-programmed for novelty. While we may be happy with the habits and routines we have established for ourselves, there always seems to be an undercurrent of yearning for something new. We are a society that constantly seeks out new ways to do things, new solutions to old problems, and new techniques to make our lives easier, more rewarding, or more fun.

We continually develop new friendships and build new networks of contacts and acquaintances. Many of us flit from one relationship to another, eternally seeking the new and the different. Each time we are sure that we have found perfection; then the cracks in our hastily embraced partnership appear and we are off, pell-mell, to find someone new.

Within an established, affectionate relationship, there is still that call for novelty no matter how muted the voice. We may elect not to risk the wonderful partnership we have by having an affair with an attractive stranger. Yet we feel the pull, the excitement, the “wonder-what-it-would-be-like” feeling when we encounter someone who makes us tingle. There are many of us who stray into a platonic but emotional affair or a whole-hearted love affair, so carried away by our excitement that we ignore its potential to topple the world we have so carefully crafted.

How can we protect and sustain that world without becoming bored and stale, with a sense that we have been cheated out of a variety of experiences that would make us more well-rounded and complete?

We learn to interject variety and new experiences into our life by the exposure of our hidden selves, the revelation of aspects of ourselves that have not yet seen the light of day. One of the most valuable attributes of a stable, monogamous partnership is the deep bond of trust that can only be developed over time and joint experience. We can then use that trust to allow us to risk ourselves as we never could in any situation which has potentially destructive elements.

We are all so much more than we appear. We have multiple layers of personality that can be peeled back like a flower bud or an exotic fruit.

Confidence in a positive and supportive response makes self-revelation an adventure rather than a dangerous risk. Within an affectionate union based on mutual respect, we can dare to be ourselves without fear of retribution or ridicule. The routine of our sexual contacts can be channeled in new directions by agreeing to find new ways of doing things and new approaches to aging habits.

Most couples, after a while, fall into a limited number of, for example, positions. The sexual bible of the Hindu, the Kama Sutra, lists over a thousand positions for sexual intercourse, some very difficult, some probably painful for anyone other than a trained contortionist. It is unlikely that in one lifetime, a thousand positions would ever be necessary. However, an expansion of options from the four or five usually used can bring a rush of excitement and a fresh breeze to your standard love-making regimen. Some efforts may turn out to be real duds but can still generate shared laughter and more intense intimacy, no matter how ineffective in generating a mutual climax.

Acquiring new positions and techniques can be accomplished through books and adult movies, now readily available in even mainstream film rental outlets, by mail, or through the Internet.

Make such experimentation fun by only using it occasionally, as an adjunct to your core routines, a novelty recess. Relentlessly pursuing novelty, time after time, can interfere with the mutually satisfying bonds you have established over time.

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November 15, 2008

Don’t Overlook The Importance Of Your Wedding Music

Filed under: Universe Of Relationships @ 9:45 am

There are two aspects of wedding music that need to be addressed when planning your big day. First, you may wish to select certain music or arrange for professional soloists or musicians to play during the actual wedding ceremony. But at the wedding reception, it’s pretty much anything goes when it comes to selecting wedding music, provided it’s tasteful.

Right away is the time to plan your wedding music. Good talent gets booked fast and you don’t want to end up having to select the brand new DJ with only a few weddings under his belt or something even worse. Booking your music a full year in advance is advisable but at a minimum, you should know who will be showing up and what he or she will be playing at least six months prior to the wedding date.

For most weddings, selecting the music for the wedding ceremony isn’t that complicated because most often, it’s controlled by the person in charge at the location where the ceremony will take place. When you’re researching your wedding ceremony options, be sure to inquire about any guidelines with respect to wedding ceremony music as these could possibly impact your decision. If the ceremony is being held outdoors, check for electrical hook-ups or book live musicians.

Wedding music during the ceremony is basically secondary to the ceremony itself so the music is really meant to sort of ‘fill in the gaps’ during the non-speaking periods such as while guests are being seated, during the procession, and while lighting the unity candles. Of course, it’s your wedding and it can be custom-designed.

The music that’s played at the reception, however, is going to mean the difference between a successful reception and one that’s ho-hum. And this is where things can start to get complicated. When you begin searching for wedding reception music, you’ll realize rather quickly that you have a lot of options. You can book a live band, or a DJ that’ll play pre-recorded music, or you can buy that CD full of top wedding songs and have someone act as the DJ.

It’s important that you both agree on the type of wedding music you want played at your reception. There are ‘traditional’ songs that almost always are played at certain points during the reception such as the father/daughter dance, the cake cutting, the dollar dance and so on. And then there is all the music in between. Do you want jazz, country, R&B, new age, Italian, Latin, Jewish-inspired, or a little bit of everything? That’s an important decision to make because the musicians you select have to be able to deliver what you want or you won’t be happy.

Try to book experienced professionals for your wedding music. Always ask for and check references. Even contact the Better Business Bureau. If booking live talent, arrange to hear a live performance before booking. Scrutinize the contract before signing to make sure all parties agree on the number of hours music will be provided and that everything that has been agreed to is in writing. Find out the cancellation and refund policy, too.

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November 14, 2008

Today’s Superb World of DVD Players and Recorders

Filed under: World Of Information @ 10:27 pm

DVD recorders are capable of being used with a digital telly to record your desired nature programs & films in addition to look at pre-recorded sci-fi programmes. Superb picture and audio quality, although the recording facility means that they are noticeably more expensive than DVD players and they can also be harder to operate than Video Cassette Recorders (VCRs). The choice of recordable configurations available these days is likely also add to the confusion.

Having the accurate connections linking your DVD recorder & your TV and personal hi-fi can absolutely make an extensive dissimilarity to the quality of the sound and image.

One or two connections to consider:

S-video connection: This is the next best thing to component video & is an alternative for all DVD Players that do not take account of component output and televisions that don’t boast component input. You possibly will require another cable but the picture difference should ought to be without a doubt worthwhile. Snatch a bargain today with Sound and Vision’s Sony DVD Recorder!

SCART leads: A traditional form of DVD connection used in the United Kingdom products is the SCART lead. This permits both sound & image signals. SCART connections are generally seen on Digital Versatile Disc players plus TVs. Gold plated SCART leads give an enhanced connection. A SCART connection will certainly give you a considerably better image than S-Video & is close to component standard. SCART cables are not by and large added with players. Be expected to shell out about twenty five pounds

Audio connectors: Digital Versatile Disc recorders, mainly the more costly models, might have numerous audio outputs. Outputs might incorporate phono, digital coaxial & digital optical. If you are connecting to a separate hi-fi player this could possibly be a considerably significant trait to have.

Progressive scan is the up-to-the-minute phrase in the DVD recorder marketplace and whereas substantially more expensive recorders do include it, it can not as a matter of fact be used except if you have a digital telly. With it your program can be refreshed at 60 times each & every second thus helping to make a clear more or less flicker free picture and is greater to anything that is supplied by the many interlaced scanning techniques.

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The Bridezilla Syndrome: Do You Have It? Ten Ways to Avoid All the BS!

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In a fast-paced world of wedding planning, stress levels are high; immune systems are low; and over the course of the past 20 years, brides have transmitted, what has become a bridal epidemic of our time.

The number of victims has steadily increased; and to date, there is no cure. It’s been dubbed various clinical names: Multiple Personality Disorder, Schizophrenia, Temporary Insanity. But in the world of matrimony, anyone who’s been exposed - fiancés, family, friends, and victims themselves — this broadening illness has been commonly termed “Bridezilla Syndrome” or “BS.”

A contagious condition, BS has become more prominent and has plagued today’s busy, wedding-planning woman. In a preliminary study, the disease has spread at an alarming rate. Symptoms of victims of BS — better known as Bridezillas — include reoccurring mood spells, bouts with selfishness, signs of controlling behavior and feelings of meticulousness.

Unfortunately fiancés, bridal party members, friends and family eventually fall victim to the actions and attitudes of a Bridezilla.

Research suggests that symptoms are recognized most often by the fiancé and Maid of Honor, and are completely undetectable by the actual victim. In some cases, a bridal party member, who having had too much alcohol to drink, confronted the Bridezilla. Most often, an emotional, breakdown of the victim would follow, thus intensifying her condition. In a survey of 100 Maids of Honor, an alarming 85% said they avoided confrontation with the victim for fear it would only exasperate the illness.

So we must ask the underlying questions: Where is all this BS coming from? How does one know when she’s full of it?
Unfortunately the source has not been found; though it is believed that it has existed since the dawn of the institution of marriage. A short-term condition (symptoms persist about 1-2 years depending on one’s wedding date), Bridezillas seem to have been unfairly blamed for their actions, for which some believe they have no control, albeit their control over everything else. In fact, it’s been clinically proven that a Bridezilla actually does have feelings — feelings of selfishness, insecurity, anxiousness and stress!

Though it’s been said there is no cure, there are ways to prevent infection of BS. A survey of healthy brides, whom successfully planned their weddings without contracting the disease, was conducted. Results showed commonalities of the actions performed to avoid the disorder. Doctors, psychologists and wedding planners strongly suggest the following preventative therapy:

1. Keep Perspective - remind yourself that the wedding is only one day in your life. When things get out of control, close your eyes and remember the reason why you are planning this wedding in the first place.

2. Don’t Assume Your Groom Doesn’t Want to Help - ask him what he’d like to take responsibility for; and then let him. (note: some grooms may follow the cliché and decline this offer.)

3. Know That You Can’t Control Everything - realize this and accept it!

4 Delegate. Delegate. Delegate - If you act like you can handle everything, people will let you. Spread the duties.

5. Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff - people won’t remember whether or not your invitations had those cute little tissues enclosed.

6. Treat The People You Cherish with Love - the wedding is one day; your family and friends are forever.

7. Allow Others to Vent - give your fiancé, family and bridesmaids permission to tell you when you’re going off the deep-end.

8. Take the Heat - give yourself permission to hear them.

9. Do Something for Yourself Every Day - the catch is that it must not involve the wedding.

10. No Wedding Talk After 10pm.

Although preventative therapy is available, some brides inherently fall victim and still contract BS. But there is hope! This is not a terminal illness. In fact in most cases, the bride has been known to be miraculously cured once she has returned from her honeymoon. Doctors and psychologists theorize that the change in altitude from flying coupled with excessive levels of the love hormone, Oxytocin counteracts the disease by boosting the immune system, thus eliminating symptoms.

In cases of remission, the disease has been known to resurface when a person, under certain circumstances, may be planning her wedding again. According to research, those brides with a higher IQ score avoided the reoccurrence of symptoms by simply eloping.

Whatever your situation, whether a Bridezilla, fiancé, friend or family member of one — join in the fight! With love, hope and education, our brides of the future and their bridal parties will have a winning chance against all the BS!

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Visit www.bridesoul.com for more information about Chicken Soup for the Bride’s Soul.

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By the author of Chicken Soup for the Bride’s Soul.

Gina Romanello is the author of Chicken Soup for the Bride’s Soul.

A graduate from Arizona State University with a BA in Journalism, Gina was thrilled when given the opportunity to join the Chicken Soup for the Kid’s Soul team. Her temporary position turned into eight years of employment in their book production department.

Her position as Executive Administrator to Patty Hansen & Irene Dunlap has played an integral part in the compiling and marketing of Chicken Soup for the Kid’s Soul, Chicken Soup for the Preteen Soul, Christmas Treasury for Kids, Chicken Soup for the Preteen Soul II and Chicken Soup for the Girl’s Soul.

Noticing many friends and family members endure the stress of planning a wedding, Gina saw a need for Chicken Soup for the Bride’s Soul, a Chicken Soup title sure to comfort and enlighten a stressed-out bride planning her big day.

Contact Gina at gina@chickensoupforthebridesoul.com or visit her website http://www.bridesoul.com

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Weddings - Who Pays For What?

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Of course, times have changed and there are occasions where the traditional ways to pay for the wedding do not apply. But if you are like most people, here’s the breakdown of who exactly pays for this thing (should you continue this traditional pattern):

The Family of the Bride -

All of Ceremony (flowers, decorations, announcements, programs, church fees, photographer/videographer, wedding favors, etc…)

All of Reception (music, food, wedding cake, decorations, flowers, etc…)

Wedding gown and accessories

Father’s tuxedo and mother’s outfit.

The Family of the Groom -

The rehearsal dinner

Groom’s cake (if applicable)

Father’s tuxedo and mother’s outfit.

The Bride -

Groom’s wedding ring and wedding gift

Gifts and luncheon for the bridesmaids

The Groom -

Bride’s wedding ring and wedding gift

His own formal wear

Corsages for both the mothers and gifts for ushers

Gifts and luncheon for groomsmen

Fee for marriage license

Honeymoon

Other payments:

Formal wear for groomsmen and gowns for the bridesmaids should be paid for by themselves

Any formal clothing for children who are in the wedding ceremony should be paid for by their respective parents

Guests pay for their travel and accommodations

Guests bring a gift for the wedding couple

Remember: No matter who flips the bill for your perfect wedding, if you follow the recommendations listed in this guide, your wedding will be just as you’ve always dreamed but on a budget respectable to YOU!

Matt Callen, author of “A Wedding To Remember: The Essential Guide To Your Dream Wedding” is a leading expert in his field of helping others in their wedding planning needs. You may use this article on your website, ONLY IF you keep an ACTIVE link to http://www.dreamweddingplanner.com at the bottom of the article with the author’s name (Matt Callen).

Copyright 2005

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